REGARD - A TRADITION OR OBLIGATION
In our society, regard is treated as a traditional right. But it is not a universal and accepted by all people. This is a very either complex or disputed concept among people and specific answer is not possible. But everyone has a right to express one's opinion so I am also expressing my opinion. Most important point is to whom the regards are expected. They should be member of the same family or we can expect regard from other people of the society. Respected people are those, who are loved and respected from all, either from the family or outside the family.
Now question arises on how a particular person be regarded only why not all. Now this turns the page of a particular person or individual. I suppose and accept not a person is regarded but his virtue, quality and his good doing is regarded or we may call it relations . Sensational and intimated to the earth, are the eligible person. For example a child is paying regard to parents it is just because the father or mother has a done a lot for their children. Why not , we should contribute our same efforts to the other people of the society.
Now the EFFORTS? Not only with the money but we have a lot of means to do something for society . For example, the neighbour who has no own members with him, needs some medical urgency,in this situation we can take him to the hospital and he may get another life or something else. TIME IS YOUR CONTRIBUTION .
TAKE another example, we find a brilliant student who needs some money for submitting examination form and we have a money, then we should contribute to him So that he may hold his degrees for the future, so MONEY IS THE CONTRIBUTION Generally the respect is understood with the passage of time, maturity and experience . When we are old and not busy in the activity of personal because other members have taken the responsibility to the inner house job and we have a time then WE SHOULD PROVIDE COUNSELLING IF NEEDED BY SOMEONE.
NOW QUALITY of a person. Try to be cooperative, have a mutual faith, try to understand the other people and start working as per the need of hour and start gaining the confidence of others, your eminence be very high along with your acceptance. But at the present age, the circumstances has become quite different. Now there is no faith,no believe,no good intention,no cooperation, super in nature and show as wisest man on the earth. Under this circumstance ,the behaviour of individual has been changed and started working very differently just because of false ego and having supremacy in nature. This has made all relation in dubious stage. No body can believe on each other. The father has no faith on their children, neighbour has no believe on next neighbour, friends are no longer friend. The children are not taking care of their parents not because they are worthless , non trustable. It is not like that they desire for a lot of things which cannot be fulfilled in usual smooth life. And this is the point from where the characters have been changed and started doing non legitimate and non social act. This prevents respect to elder, affection to other person and other bad acts in the society.
WHAT ARE REQUIRED TO IMPROVE ALL RELATIONS?
- DO NOT CREATE A DESIRE WHICH SEEMS TO BE SKY HIGH.PARENT OR OTHER MEMBERS MAY NOT PROVIDE
- ENCOURAGE FOR SUCH HABIT OR DESIRE WHICH IS PURLY EGO.
- TRY TO ADJUST WITH THE EXISTING MODE OF LIFE TILL IT GOES OTHER SIDE OF LIFE.
- TRY NOT TO INTERFERE IN THE ACTIVITY OF OTHER UNLESS IT STARTED HURTING YOU OR LEAVE THE PLACE AND START
- LIVING YOUR LIFE.
- DEPENDENCY IS A NATURAL STAGE AND ONLY KITH OR KINS MAY HELP.
- MINIMISE THE OWN NEEDS.
- TRY TO DO PHYSICAL EXERCISE AND OCCUPY YOURSELF IN ANY JOB, JOB MAY BE OF ANY TYPE.